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I do believe speaking with the gf is a blunder.

I do believe speaking with the gf is a blunder.

Katie July 17, 2012, 9:42 am

We agree with you… i dunno. Its difficult. I recently know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply anyone I will be.

Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to make an effort to speak with her, but she will turn her focus from the LW being an issue to the guy being the issue, which is what is going on if she sets the record straight with the girlfriend, hopefully.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july

As well as, just what do you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into each other really and truly just a coincidence?

Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am

I am able to realise why you’d believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, perhaps maybe perhaps not the ex-BF relationship that is current. Thats just a complicator. The LW is only able to get a grip on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and being aggravating. Their relationship with brand new GF is none of her company, and frankly, the 2 girls need not be friends after all. It can you need to be an additional url to the guy for the LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.

Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july

Thats a point that is good sure!

Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am

Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I used to plenty of fish desktop site be buddies using this band of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all the girls they dated would get crazy i’d get really surprised, cos they seemed so normal to me on them after a couple of weeks and? Then we realised it ended up beingn’t the girls, its the people. Additionally the girls had been all people that are just normal, you understand, wished to understand if they’d a boyfriend or not…….

Katie 17, 2012, 10:04 am july

Yea. Its love, when that occurs enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MIGHT BE!!

I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s complete attention. And she deserves a man who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and stuff. Thats messed up! And she probably hates the LW because she actually is being told by the guy a couple of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.

Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july

Personally I think bad on her too, but she has to be aware of by herself. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but thats why many people go into these with their eyes spacious. Oh and the man has to“ stop droppingBut I have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the means the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”

Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july

Yeah that “but I have a girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands which he features a GF, he could be simply hunting for a response each time he states it. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care if you do have a GF, i am going to nevertheless blow you” or “Dump that skank, and get back to me”

Katie 17, 2012, 10:27 am july

Yea, its like whenever i was in senior school and me personally and my boyfriend would split up almost every other week, and then he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.

Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm

@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and acquire straight right right back together”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am

I’ve said here a whole lot, if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other method. I’m sure so men that are many utilize that word to hide because of their dickish behavior.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am

We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy within the first place. I simply state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The actual fact which you place a “crazy” label about it, makes me think you might be one that loves to stir the muck.

Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am

Also, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?

Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm

Therefore true! When the “crazy” comes away, Im operating one other means. I believe it had been said above- once you attract the crazy, the typical denominator is constantly YOU, buddy.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am

To be honest, that it’s partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about any of it too, and yet she will continue to respond to this dudes calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he could be dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.

Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july

Yep! We completely agree. LW, just stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman because your simply planning to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe not your boyfriend as well as that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.

Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am

That is a point that is great you dudes. I didnt consider it like that.

So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. If he could be not happy to be, you should do it.

Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm

Amen bestie – we accept you about talking into the gf. Who knows exactly what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their chatting many times, but as the relationship is none of these company, the truth that the LW additionally the girlfriend that is new met now i do believe enables the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She doesn’t fundamentally need certainly to state, “Hey, so that your boyfriend happens to be saying that is___ for me and he’s the only calling, and then he said you’re fine using this, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I happened to be beneath the impression you’re ok with this being buddies, but i simply noticed I’m maybe maybe perhaps not fine with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”

Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:37 am

I’dn’t communicate with the girlfriend about that. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And simply to share with you you respect her relationship? I would personally think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing mind games. Just just Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t like to hear from him for a time, then keep them alone. Actually they probably won’t workout because you may be nevertheless within the photo (which does not do great things for a fresh relationship), but allow them work that out on their own.

Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july

Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It’s therefore uncomfortable. Everybody pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay whenever your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.

Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:28 am